Can't help out w/ the grilling aspect, as I usually do it on the stovetop or on my huge indoor grill.
As Q mentioned, leave the steak out 30-60 minutes prior to cooking. Season w/ S&P, if desired. Get the pan (a cast iron skillet is good) really hot (if cooking indoors watch that the smoke detector doesn't go off). Give 'em a quick sear on both sides. I like mine a little more well done, so I finish them off in the oven.
A little side note. Recently I watched celebrity apprentice where Meatloaf was cooking Kansas city steaks (forget the brand) for a promotion. As I recall, he said he didn't cook, but he seared the sides of the steaks in the skillet in a demo, & the execs loved his method.
Here's a litle steak grilling humor:
To the women: Take note !!!!
BBQ RULES
We are about to enter the BBQ season. Therefore it is important to refresh your memory on the etiquette of this sublime outdoor cooking activity.
When a man volunteers to do the BBQ the following chain of events are put into motion:
Routine...
(1) The woman buys the food.
(2) The woman makes the salad, prepares the vegetables, and makes dessert.
(3) The woman prepares the meat for cooking, places it on a tray along with the necessary cooking utensils and sauces, and takes it to the man who is lounging beside the grill - beer
in hand.
(4) The woman remains outside the compulsory three meter exclusion zone where the exuberance of testosterone and other important manly bonding activities, (such as the pulling of fingers, followed by farting, followed by laughing), can take place without the interference of the woman.
Here comes the important part:
(5) THE MAN PLACES THE MEAT ON THE GRILL, POKES IT & TURNS THE MEAT WITH A IMPLEMENT CONSTANTLY
More routine...
(6) The woman goes inside to organize the plates and cutlery.
(7) The woman comes out to tell the man that the meat is looking great. He thanks her and asks if she will bring another beer while he flips the meat.
Important again:
(8) THE MAN TAKES THE OVERCOOKED MEAT OFF THE GRILL AND HANDS IT TO THE WOMAN. THE WOMAN MUST NOW HAND THE MAN ANOTHER BEER IN APPRECIATION OF HIS GREAT EFFORTS.
More routine...
(9) The woman prepares the plates, salad, bread, utensils, napkins, sauces, and brings them to the table.
(10) After eating, the woman clears the table and does the dishes.
And most important of all:
(11) Everyone PRAISES the MAN and THANKS HIM for his cooking efforts.
(12) The man asks the woman how she enjoyed "her night off." Upon seeing her annoyed reaction he concludes that there's just no pleasing some women.......... slower members of the male gene pool are often “culled” art this point if they are foolish enough to ask “how about you get me another beer while you’re up?”,
Especially if the woman wasn’t!
http://agoddessinthekitchen.blogspot.com/2007/09/perfectly-cooked-steak.html